Would you be upset if your husband didn’t even say happy Valentine’s Day to you?

Question

We have been together 6 years and lately it seems like he could care less about me. Last night he said he was going to bed and just sat on his phone instead. I am a stay at home mom and it just feels like he would rather be anywhere then with me 🥺 He kissed the kids goodbye this morning and didn’t even come in and say bye to me just left

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Have you said anything to him about how you feel? 
I voted “no” and my husband didn’t say happy Valentine’s Day this morning but Valentine’s Day isn’t something either of us have ever put any importance on in our relationship. He did give me a kiss goodbye though, like I’ve trained him lol.
My husband and I have been together 5 1/2 years and I made it clear from the very beginning that I expect/need a goodbye every time. He still thinks it’s silly, but now if I’m rushing out the door he’s the one to go “ummmm, are you forgetting something?”

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Have you talked to him...?

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please voice your concerns. he cant know if you never tell him.
i voted yes because me and hub are affectionate as hell and the only reason for us to not say happy [holiday] to each other is forgetting what day it is. id be upset if he knew and didnt take the time to say happy whatever and snuggle me, but everyones different.

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Nah, I'm not too big on most holidays anyways, but Valentine's day is just another day to me. I did buy him a cute coffee mug last year and jokingly said something this morning, but i don't need him to say happy valentines day or get me anything just because it's "what you're supposed to do" it's just another day to us.

Would you be upset if your husband didn’t even say happy Valentine’s Day to you?

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