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Can’t orgasm?

So when I masturbate I normally just rub my clit. I get to the point where my legs start shaking, my heart rate increases, I feel warm, etc, but I don’t think I’ve ever actually orgasmed. After masturbating for a bit, and hanging the leg twitches and stuff, all of a sudden I don’t feel good anymore. Like I don’t feel anything when I touch my clit. I never get to a point where it feels like a release, it’s just build up and then it’s done. Does anyone have a suggestion on what I should do/ know what’s happening?

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Ka

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I agree with the vibrator, a bullet works magic! And maybe try taking it slower with less pleasure and letting it build up more slowly, some women can handle it rough yet don't get off on it.

Sa

Sasha • Feb 20, 2020
Oh that’s smart, ty!

Ka

Kate • Feb 17, 2020
Pressure*, not pleasure. There should be plentyyy of pleasure

Sa

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Same

Ka

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That happened to me before and I kept trying and finally orgasmed eventually. It's like my body had to learn how- and now it's not normally a problem, I orgasm easily.

Co

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Just keep rubbing, just keep rubbing lol

MD

MD • Feb 22, 2020
*intensity

MD

MD • Feb 22, 2020
It’s because you’re mind is wandering. Add lube and re direct your focus to the sensation. If it’s not feeling good play with the pressure of intent isn’t and motion until u hit a spot that you’re feeling it and focus on that.

Sa

Sasha • Feb 17, 2020
At some point it stops feeling good, so I stop. If I start again it feels like I’m starting from scratch

DM

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Try a vibrator?!

Am

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I have the same problem nobody can Ever make me orgasm & even with a vibrator it’s damn near impossible! Any suggestions would be great it sucks not being able to makes you feel broken

Sa

Sasha • Feb 20, 2020
It totally does! I’ll let you know if anything changes though

Be

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Are you on any medications? This happened to me when I was on meds. I couldn’t reach orgasm. It SUCKED!!!!

Sa

Sasha • Feb 18, 2020
I’m on some thyroid medicine but I don’t think that affects stuff

Li

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Just keep going till it releases

Sa

Sasha • Feb 17, 2020
The thing is at some point I stop feeling anything, so it would be like I’m starting over
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