Husband’s Snoring is out of CONTROL

Ok quick back story. My husband and I met on a dating app. I was raising my daughter on my own while living at my parents when we met. He would come stay the night on weekends and I never had a problem sleeping in the same bed/room as him. We moved in together after 8 months of dating and even then, I never had issues sleeping next to him. Occasionally if he got really sick or allergies flared up he would snore and it would drive me nuts if I woke up to it or he fell asleep first.

Flash forward to now. We have been living together for 3.5 years, married for almost 2.5 years, and we had our first kid together one year who. When I was super pregnant (about 8 months) I was dealing with insomnia and he started sleeping in the living room in the futon we got for guests we anticipated after baby’s arrival. He slept out here for a year other than while we had company, because I literally couldn’t sleep with his snoring and my extra sensitive new mom ears.

Baby turned one a few weeks ago and has been in her room with big sister since Christmas time. I slept good for a couple weeks until he decided it was time to “move back” into the bedroom. Let me tell you, I have barely slept most nights. Unless I’m completely exhausted and fall asleep super fast, his snoring is HORRIBLE. He refuses to go see a doctor to get a sleep study done and get a cpap machine even though he desperately needs one.

I’m sleeping out on the futon in the living room tonight so that I can hopefully get some sleep but I’m so angry with him. I’m pregnant again on accident so now I’m super exhausted all the time and he makes me feel guilty about wanting naps after NOT SLEEPING because of how loud he snores. I just cannot stand being around my husband. If it’s not the weird smell he’s got now that my nose is super sensitive to smells, it’s his snoring and his attitude. I literally feel like our marriage is worse off than it was when he slept out here for a whole year.