Mommy white flag

Lol I'm losing my mind 🙃 my 16 week old is crazy. Can I toss my white flag, I hate when he does his ugly cry 😢 here I am trying my hardest to find out what's wrong. He's overly active. Always moving never wants to lay down for too long wants to be carried to see everything. Wants to sit all the time, hes draining my energy and gaining it all for himself. Holding myself together because I know it'll get better. Anyways momma's what is your baby like and how do you calm them down 💕