needing to vent UPDATE

update. i had a gut feeling i was having a girl, she told me she also had a gut feeling i was having a girl and that her gut feeling for herself said boy. i found out i’m having a boy and now she has this gut feeling she’s having a girl all of a sudden. she keeps rubbing it in my face that she could have the girl cause it would be the first grandchild that’s a girl out of 10 grandkids.

so i have a sister in law who’s quite competitive with me for no reason .. she always has to be better then me regardless how silly and petty it may be. if i got new couches , she has to go get a better version. if i buy certain groceries she’ll ask how much i spend and then she goes and buys more then me. it’s been like this since we had our kids who are over a year apart. she’s highly opinionated and you honestly can’t say anything to her. if i was to tell her, her son hit mine it manages to be my sons fault even if he was just sitting somewhere. if you make a comment about her sons actions (calmly and nicely) she goes off about how shit of a parent you are.

me and my son had started to ttc , she told me i was crazy and should do something else with my life. i told her i wanted to have a second child and that i enjoyed being a mom. literally a month later she tells me she’s ttc. i asked her what about college and such and she literally repeated word for word what i told her.

fast forward, i find out i’m pregnant the end of november 2018. i miscarried 2 weeks later. the second day into my miscarriage she goes off about how she thinks she’s pregnant and was angry at me that i expressed that it upset me.

fast forward to 2019 i find out i’m pregnant in the beginning of november. she finds out almost 3 weeks later that she is also pregnant. i thought it may be a nice experience but i was wrong. i have placenta anterior, i had it with my son also. i am 19 weeks monday. she just hit 17 weeks and is currently bragging about how she feels her baby kicking and such. so okay whatever. little upset but i’m happy for her. she’s buying the same crib i’m buying, bought the same diaper bag i bought. i told her i wanted to breast feed and pump as i couldn’t do either with my son. she said she was going to formula feed, a week later she brings it up again and tells me she’s now going to pump and breastfeed and bought the same pump as me. she wants to combine the kids birthday parties if we have them within the same week. keeps telling me she’s going to try and go into labour the same day as me.

i’m just frustrated and beyond annoyed and don’t have anyone to talk too so thank you for listening omg