My husband wants me to forgive and get over the hurt feelings I have between me and his SIL. He won’t let up and refuses to let me have more time and space. She is having her daughter soon and my husband wants us to be close to his brother and SIL.

His brother and SIL don’t care about me. They are closer to my husband than they are to me.

So finally after much back and forth between the two of us, I’m giving in and just forgiving her and mending the relationship.

My husband reminded me that “love is patient, love is kind.” And if I am to be more Christ like, I am to love as He loved. Even if people disrespect me, even if they hurt me. Even if they reject me and talk bad about me. I must always choose love.

And I wish my husband only knew that if I had chosen to love no matter what someone did to me... I would have allowed so many unhealthy relationships to continue in my life.