4 month old not sleeping through the night

I keep reading posts, about how their babies go down to sleep at 7 or 8 and then sleep through the night and wake only next morning. My 4 month old sleeps only around 10:30pm and wakes twice, first around 3 am and then around 5 am for a feed.. who are these babies that sleep through the night 😂!! I tried putting my baby down at 8 for the night, but she keeps waking up and will only sleep at 10:30 no matter what I do!! And the naps are even horrible, if I don't hold her through the nap she wakes in 20 mins, if I hold her she sleeps for 2 hours.. its crazy. Please tell me there is hope!

P.s its not sleep regression, she has been this way since birth