So me and my mother in law over the last year have just not been able to get along and it keeps getting worse and worse , around July I found out I was pregnant with my son and everyone was so happy at first talking about all the fun things we can do and guessing if it was a boy or girl, well that was until the morning sickness and the exhaustion started to kick in I was working full time overnights at the time and not missing any work because of it so all I pretty much wanted to do when I was home was eat and sleep we lived with her at the time and she expected me to come and sit in her room and talk to her for hours after she woke up at 10-11 which pretty much never happened after I got pregnant because I could hardly stay up until 11am most days and that was when it first started to go downhill she started talking about how lazy I was and how selfish I was because all I ever did was hang out in my room she would tell my husbands whole side of the family these things and much more like how will she take care of a baby if she can’t even take care of herself, I let it go and continued on with my pregnancy as best I could to stay happy, around 20 weeks we had our anatomy scan and we were going to do a gender reveal that following Sunday, well I couldn’t plan it by myself and she didn’t seem interested so I asked my sister to help and she did, the day of my gender reveal she tells me and my husband that we need to move out of her house she is sick of me being there and I’m lazy so of course that started a huge fight between me and my husband and his mother and it ruined my day I arrived to my gender reveal in tears because I was going to be having a baby and I had nowhere to live, so my mom said we could stay with her as long as we needed so we wouldn’t be homeless with a baby, I tried so hard to be happy that day but I just couldn’t everyone could tell something was wrong and on top of that she didn’t go to the gender reveal and acted like it was my fault she told husband that I didn’t include her in anything for the gender reveal skip a couple months and I was in a bad mood one day when I woke up for work because she was being loud all day so I didn’t get much sleep and I didn’t say anything to anyone on my way out of the house when I got to work she texted me and told me that I need to leave her house this week she is sick of my attitude and me not doing anything all the time when I was trying my best at this point to help when I could I would cook dinner on my nights off for everyone and clean the whole house once a week but I didn’t argue I came home from work and started packing my things I told my husband if he wanted to stay he could but I was going to stay with my mom he chose to come with me and be with his son we left that weekend when we were leaving though she tried to start a fist fight with me because I was taking her son away which I ran away from because I was 5 months pregnant so I went to my car and waited for him meanwhile she let her dogs out and they jumped all over my car and scratched it when we left I told my husband that whole exchange was uncalled for and ridiculous he agreed and neither one of us talked to her for a few day’s until she called him crying saying she was sorry for everything she did to me and that she wanted us to move back which after he talked to her I told him was a bad idea we managed to get along for a few months I kept my mouth shut when she would talk about me and eventually stopped caring, this past week was my baby shower for my son I was looking forward to everyone coming together and seeing everyone well the day comes and everyone starts showing up except my mother in law I go on with the shower and I had a great time after everyone left I asked my husband to call her and find out why she didn’t come she said she didn’t feel like it so now I’m really starting to get upset because she hasn’t come to anything for our son and it’s her sons baby too and I know he’s hurt by it but he will never tell her that a couple days later she calls and asks us to come see her so we do and she starts talking about when the baby is born and how excited she is for it and how she will be the first one up there and then she asks me who all is coming to see me and him after he’s born I said my whole family will want to see him because this is the first grandchild on my side and she started getting an attitude and said if that many people are coming she isn’t going at all my husband asked her on the spot why she has to act like that towards me when I didn’t do anything to her and she said she can’t stand me and ever since I came into his life he has changed and he told her it was for the better he is happier now than he ever was and she should be happy for him and we left he was really upset

Yesterday my water broke and we came to the hospital to have our baby she came up to see me and got aggravated with me because I was having bad contractions and wouldn’t talk to her through them I ended up having him an hour after she stormed off and she said she wasn’t coming back to see him she could care less, she has made this whole pregnancy seem so bad for me and him to the point we didn’t want to include her I’m so upset for my husband because my family has been so supportive of both of us throughout this and she hasn’t been and I know it bothers him