hey all, just wanted to post my experience in here because i literally didn’t know sub drop (or top drop) existed until it happened to me and i figured it might help some others. in case you’re unaware, sub drop is a term used to describe the after effects of a scene, both physical changes in the submissive's body and mental and emotional results of the scene on the submissive’s mind. it occurs anywhere from minutes to days after the session, and it can last for hours or up to weeks. after my Daddy and i finished a rather intense punishment session and aftercare, we were about to watch a movie together and i just broke down. i didn’t know why i was crying or how to stop, and it lasted for about 30 minutes. i felt intense sadness, pain, and doubt about BDSM and my kinks, as well as doubt for the care i have for my Daddy and the care He has for me. all He could do was console me, and i didn’t feel back to normal until the following morning. just know that if you or your sub/Dom ever experience this, it’s completely normal and it will pass. it can happen because you got too deep into subspace, a scene was too physically and/or emotionally taxing, or for no reason at all. your dopamine balance can sometimes fall into a steep decline after you get out of subspace or finish the scene, and your body might take time to regulate itself. if it happens to you, look up ways to recover.

anyways, i just thought it might be helpful to share what i’ve learned recently. xoxo