Childfree path ?

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So I'm not 100% sure but I think I'm going to be childfree. I am 22 years old and I got pregnant last year in December. (Please don't leave rude comments) My pregnancy was not planned and I used protection so it was a shock to me. The whole time I was pregnant I had an extremely hard time connecting to the child. Everything just felt extremely wrong. I was miserable even though I was only pregnant from a short time. I miscarried at 7 weeks.
I dont think I want to be a mother, ever. I honestly deep down dont like kids at all. I dont understand why so many people gush over babies. It really just doesnt connect for me. I dont find pregnancy beautiful in any sense I just dont feel anything towards it. I understand it is a very beautiful thing for a lot of people and I totally respect that, I dont think others are wrong for how they feel. That's just how I personally feel. 
I also dont have any maternal bone in my body. I would consider myself a kind person but I dont like taking care of people and I'm not a nurturer.  I dont think I'm capable of that kind of love. But also, I'm not sure if this is just how I will always be or if these things can change. Does anyone else feel the same way? I know how I feel is unusual and I think it might have to do with the abusive household I grew up in. Sometimes I feel like a bad person but I cant help that I feel this way. When I was pregnant I tried so hard to love my baby and I just couldnt. I'm probably going to get hate for this but oh well.

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I feel this way right up until I was 30. Really and truly couldn't even stand to be around children. Never wanted any of my own.
Not everyone wants to be a mom and that's fine. No one should hate you for that.

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I’m 34 and have chosen a child free life. Best decision I ever made. I love my sleep, being spontaneous and giving all of my love to my partner. I don’t need a child for validation, to take care of me when I’m older or to be a better parent than mine. I had an amazing childhood. I have a fantastic adult life. You don’t need kids to be happy but I don’t judge those that do. Love your life the way YOU want to. Not because of an expectation or standard norm.

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Totally fine to feel the way you do. You might end up feeling differently later on, who knows? But if you don’t end up having kids there are still lots of things that make life worth living!

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That's totally fine, it's your choice on what you want in life, I was like this most of my 20's I enjoyed doing what I wanted and always being free then I started getting older and wanted a family.

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I felt this way until I met my husband. He really wanted kids and I knew how great a father he would be. I would literally be depriving a child of having him as a father. I didn’t get a connection with my daughter until after she was born. She is now the most important thing in my world.

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You’re not a bad person at all. I think the bad people are those who have kids to 1) collect money 2) please their partner but never love their children 3) bring children into the world that they have to interest in keeping or private adopting out and just sluff them off to the foster system. Don’t get me wrong, many women love their kids after they are born and grow a bond, but many have them for the wrong reasons. Happiness is what you make it, and only you can be the decider in that. I believe every person, man and woman, has the absolute right to chose their fate. I don’t believe in forcing people to be parent if they don’t want to be. Mothers or fathers. This is why I have given the father of my child a complete out if he doesn’t want to be around. We got pregnant unexpectedly and I won’t blame him or resent him if he’s not ready. Yes it took both of us to make this child but he has as much choice as I do. I grew up in a home where my dad was forced to “stick around” and I can tell you it sucks ass. Kids know when they aren’t loved or wanted.

Childfree path ?

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