How to heal after a 5year breakup?

Question

Feeling broken. We tried to make it work... but he lied and lied and cheated. Not physically. But was emotionally invested in someone else. (Who denied him, haha) but All while lying to me. Sending girls requests , being sneaky, messaging girls... etc. when confronted he would lie... Now I’m pregnant ... and he wants to be there fully. But not for me.... only for baby. it hurts. How can I heal from this? Any meditation ideas? Crystal healing etc? Tips would be amazing.

Answer

Honestly, this is just one girl’s opinion, but I think you need Jesus, not meditation or crystals or advice. I believe you were intricately designed by a loving Father who seriously views you as his princess and has such higher wants for you than a man who would treat you that way. God designed you with so much to offer as a woman and a mother, and if there’s going to be a man in your life—which there certainly doesn’t have to be when you’ve got a Father in heaven to provide for you and comfort you and lift you up—but if you are going to have a man in your life, it should be one who treats you like the precious gift you are & who challenges and encourages you to grow into the amazing, strong, powerful person that God intended you to be. I think that realizing that truth & throwing yourself into relationship with that amazing God is all you’ll need to get over the brokenness in this past relationship. You’ll realize it wasn’t right for the person you really are & you’ll end up feeling sorry and sad for that guy who doesn’t know how to treat women instead of feeling so hurt by him. I wish you the best, girl, and I believe you can go on to greater things!

How to heal after a 5year breakup?

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