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My husband and I have been trying so hard to have a baby 💔 It has been two years and still nothing.....it is killing me inside I feel like I am less of a woman......I just want to be a mom so bad. I see all of these beautiful mothers and I am so extremely happy for them but deep down it hurts even more. I see people having kids and giving them up and I just don't understand why someone can have a child and give them up and I can't even have one 💔 I honestly am killing myself over it 😔

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Unfortunate you're so affected, but you should realize women who give their children up for adoption usually aren't in the best position in life to raise a child. It's not any easier, they're fertile and were born that way, and nothing makes any woman less of a woman because she can't bear a child either. Just a thought for all the women who think this way, it's unhealthy and not fair for women of all types.

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I understand completely. My husband and I tried for 5years. I got so depressed and angry that it was affecting our marriage. We conceived this past Christmas. Identical twins. I'm currently experiencing a missed miscarriage.  As much as I want to just be miserable,  I cant allow myself to. At least now I know we can get pregnant, and we can try again. So hang in there. It'll happen for you when you least expect it. And remember, stressing over trying to conceive isn't helpful to actually conceive. Also, my doctor said when we're ready to try again, to take baby aspirin once a day and a prenatal high in folic acid and iron. That it'll help. 🤷‍♀️

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