My mom made my baby shower aug 9. My husband told my mom that I want a jack and Jill at the house on a Sunday so obviously she planned a girls only Saturday baby shower at a venue.

My husband is a first gen immigrant ( his parents dont even live her ) and really wanted some of his close friends and Malle cousins (he doesn’t have female cousins here ) there and we wanted some Brazilian culture and decorations since our child is 1/2 Brazilian. This isn’t happening anymore obviously.

Would it be bad to plan a more low key second shower so my husband and I can have what we want ? Or is that too rude ?