Should I leave him or stay with him...(he gave me herpes follow up)

dreadedbeauty • The weirdo corner

This is going to be a little lengthy but I need help please...

First I have a separate post about my current boyfriend about how he gave me herpes. Now before you say leave his ass let me tell the story.

We’ve been together for 3 years. I know in my heart he’s the one I want to marry, to have children with and be with for life. We’ve had problems in our relationship because we didn’t take the time we needed to get to know each other and literally moved together within 2 months of knowing each other. Our issues we’ve had were us both owning very dominate personalities but we got through it. We’ve encountered an issue before where we were so sick of each other we were ready to break up. He ended up entertaining some girl and I found out. We got past it and stayed together. In total we’ve had 3 total situations with females. 1 being the ex before me. So with her he’s talked to her about her child because he looked at the child as his daughter. I understood but I wasn’t comfortable with it so he bowed out. The reason for this is because the girl would use the child against him and it wasn’t even his child. So fast forward to now. We’ve had a great relationship. Recently he had some bumps appear on his dick. We went to the doctor to get it checked. A few days later he advises me the doctor told him he has herpes. I was disgusted, mad and just hurt. I asked him where he thinks he got it from. He tells me her. Mind you she sent me this message a while ago

When I questioned him about it he said he didn’t and move forward. I know at that point we should have gotten tested but it was entirely too late at that.

So back to the current day...I told him to call her and ask her does she have it. Before he would call he advised me he had recently spoke to her about her grandmother passing. So due to this I felt like my trust was betrayed. I broke up with him. He told me the conversation was innocent but he hid it from me. He said he deleted everything so I wouldn’t find out. He just didn’t want her to say anything when he called so that’s why he finally said something. So now that we’ve broken up he doesn’t want it to be over. He’s cried, screamed and flipped his shit. Bought flowers, doing anything I say or ask. At this point I need to know if I should stay.

I love him so much. He’s a good man to me outside of these stupid situations. He hasn’t physically cheated to my knowledge but I just don’t trust him. Can this be saved? Should I save it? I know he loves me but at what point do I walk away?