I can't get them in.... *TMI*

Hi, so... I can't get my fingers in my 😺 :( . Am I normal? Does it happen to you?

I'm in my 20s and sexually active. I have no problem with my bf and I can also use small tampons but it is sometimes difficult.

When I do manage to get my fingers in (usually only 1 fits, 2 if I'm lucky) , it hurts to get them out and I instantly regret.