I understand that I might seem dramatic and stupid for this but there is a reason. When I was 16 my first boyfriend raped me. And would touch me when I told him to stop. Or if I fell asleep I would wake up to him touching me or undressing me.

Now I’m 21 I just had a baby. And my husband won’t stop touching my butt. I have asked him so many times to stop I have begged him. We got together when I was 18 and he knows that I was raped he knows why I don’t want him touching me but he thinks I’m being stupid and dramatic over it. He’s always grabbing or slapping or touching my butt and it bothers me. I’m not someone who really likes PDA out of the bedroom anyway and plus I just had a baby. I am not comfortable or happy or anything with my body right now. He gets mad when I tell him to stop. Or goes why? Or says “no it’s my booty, you’re my wife and it’s mine to touch”

What can I do? There’s other things but this is just something that is honestly driving me crazy.