Everyone is getting pregnant, when will I be? 😤

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It’s good that people are getting their own bundle of joy, but it’s so difficult to get happy to see them that way. Especially when I can’t get preg even after trying and people are marrying and next boom.. they are pregnant.. what the heck.. and then my hubby would think I am being selfish and rude for not getting happier for others.. am I only one to feel insecure when someone shares pregnancy or delivery news 😥

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My sister in law n I got pregnant few weeks apart n I miscarried being happy for her through out her whole pregnancy was hard. Yes I have two babies already but been trying for a 3rd for 2 yrs now

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Being happy for someone isn't a requirement. You're allowed to feel however you want

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Anytime I see a pregnancy announcement now I just sit and cry. Never been pregnant. And I’m sure it’s even harder for those that have lost a little babe. 
When my little sister got pregnant at 16 and again at 18 I cried so so much. I didn’t think it was fair that someone that didn’t even want a baby got 2 and I don’t even have one. 
Still a little jealous and don’t even go around my nephews as much as I want to. It just makes me sad. I love them to death though!

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Yep.
I try to be happy for them, but it’s so hard to be.
Ladies in my family are pregnant now and I am so happy for them but dying on the inside.

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Yes I felt really angry when my fiancé’s brother and girlfriend got pregnant (They got pregnant in October 2019& due July 2020). They were at the bars every weekend in November and then at Christmas 2019 they were drinking (hard core drunk) and said we don’t want kids as we can’t maintain our lifestyle. And 2 weeks later we get a call saying “We’re pregnant! And they thought they conceived in Dec which would have made their due date, our wedding day.  🙃 We are getting married in September so we are waiting until July to even try but it still hurt. And I feel bad because of all the drinking in the first trimester.

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It took 5 years for our first and 17 months for this one. It’s not discussed but you are definitely not alone.

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Baby dust your way hun! We've had 3 losses. 2 back to back last year and been trying to get pregnant ever since. No luck. I thought this was our month but I feel very out with all my BFNs. Hopefully it happens for everyone that's been trying soon enough 🤞

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Yes it’s hard. I feel like everyone is having babies around me and I would love to have one for myself. Although we haven’t been trying long, I find it difficult when I see my period after waiting and hoping it won’t come. I feel ya girl! Try to stay positive!

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A lot people are in your boat as well. I got married in November been trying getting no were we see everyone else getting married and weeks later getting pregnant got keep positive. Don’t allow negativity to overwhelm you !!! Your bundle of joy will come xoxox

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I felt that way after 3 losses in a row. It became difficult to be happy for others even family who were pregnant without issue. I had to keep reminding myself that being bitter was not helping and I did my best to stress less and just focus on getting healthy. I joined a gym and started working out 4 days a week. After a couple months of working out and focusing on my health I got my BFP and I am currently 22 1/2 weeks. You will have your day. Stay positive and focus on your health 😊

Everyone is getting pregnant, when will I be? 😤

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