You took him to.the babysitter so you can sleep?

This morning around 7am I stopped at my sons house to pick him up for work because supposedly his GF had a new job and needed the car.(this is her 4th job in 2 months because if she doesn't like it she quits!) So they both over slept I was wondering why she looked like she just crawled out of bed no brushing her hair or anything looked a mess! My son says..oh she didn't wanna work there so she's taking him to the babysitter so she can sleep...😳...My grandson is 7-8months old and they throw him to anyone that will keep him as long as it's free! This woman they just met just started watching him so his GF takes full advantage of her being released of mommy duties for the day. I'm high risk pregnant and can't keep him cause he weighs 25 lbs lol love my Turkey butt..anyways just irritated that my grandson was sent somewhere so she could sleep.all.day. She wanted a girl so when she found out a boy she flipped out and refuses to be a mother only when she wants to be and my son allows it. I step back and don't say anything cause I don't wanna over step my boundaries and when I do then I'm the worst grandparent or mother in the world because I should mind my business..I'm just frustrated is all.

Btw...its NOT postpartum depression..she's been like this since the day I met her(before pregnancy) she's just straight up lazy🧏‍♀️. I'm a stay at home mom of multiples so you can toss the "bashing" lol.