Suggestions...

I hope all have been keeping their sanity being cooped up at home, if you don't work. And still manage to have a wonderful Easter.

So, I'm a first time parent. I worry about the lack of parenting skills I have (or don't). Our little one is almost 20 months, well into defiance & pushing limits. I'm aware thats just how some children are. However, my concern is how she responds with some things.

For instance, we were coloring eggs today. All was fine & dandy until I asked her not to throw the eggs. She would then repeat saying no & kicking her legs about. Then tried to throw the colored water & anything else.

But that's just her reaction to anything we ask her not to do. Throwing a fit & repeating no.

Please tell me this is normal?? I'm grateful she doesn't get violent with hitting. But is there some way I can help her? Her language is limited still, as she does babble quite a bit. We do try to take the time to listen to her, but sometimes she just needs to listen so she's not hurting herself or anything around her.

Also, I do still nurse, sometimes it is for comfort. It has become apparent when it's for comfort, as when she has a fit moment when she's done she'll come to me wanting my breast. But we do things together 24/7 regardless, so I wouldn't think its because of lack of attention? 🤷‍♀️

Any suggestions appreciated. TIA 💛