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I AM FALLING FOR A SEVENTEEN YEAR OLD AND I AM FOURTEEN BUT HE IS SO MATURE AND CUTE AND MY MOTHER JUST DOESNT UNDERSTAND WHAT DO I DO

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You don't mess with him. I dated someone that old when I was your age. It's not a good idea. You're very young still while he's almost a legal adult. If you two do anything, he could face legal issues. Most of the time guys that age want to take advantage of you. Why can't he find someone his own age? He's at a different stage in his life. You're learning to become a teen while he's learning to become an adult and start his life. 
Your mom doesn't want you talking to him because it's an awful idea so you should listen. There are billions of guys out there and you're extremely young anyway. There's no reason to date someone that old.

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I met my husband when I was 14 and he was 17. I had a huge crush on him, but I didn't find out until years later that he liked me too, but he knew that if we dated then, it wouldn't end well. He didn't want to hurt me, so instead he was my friend. We didn't get serious until I was 25, and he was 28. And let me tell you, it was worth the wait. He, and our family, was worth the wait.

14 and 17 is a lot bigger of an age gap than you think. I promise.

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Do what you want! I was 13 & my boyfriend was 16. I'm a lot more mature for my age and hang around with his age group anyway.

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In my opinion age is nothing but a number but in situation it's a more serious than just a number. Honestly there's a legal problem that could happen with this relationship. If that happens then you and him will be trouble. Also if mom doesn't want to talking to him then please don't. Speaking from a similar experience if disobey her then could hard when her trust back. Honestly at the end of the day it's your choice along with your parents.

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don't do it. you are both in very different places and should wait until you're at least 16.

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My boyfriend is 2 years older than me. Love is love. Just be careful. Often older guys are more expeeienced, and expect different things. I had that and had to put him in his place a few times at the start. Love knows no age. Sit your mum down and talk to her calmly. Tell her you can handle yourself, and you just need her to support you. Make sure she doesn't just interrupt you and dismiss the idea. My mum hated my current boyfriend originally so I hid it from her for over a month. She was more hurt when she found out

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