Inlove with the guy

I have seeing this guy who I don't knw what he want he said he want to be friend with me and get to knw me but still seeing his ex help her out and do stuff for her.he would come see me but not all the time we hardly see each other but we have do some stuff that probably friends or being "friends"don't do like making out.i just don't understand what he want.i told him that I like him and he say that he does too.i also ask if he was looking for Friends with benefits then he should leave me alone because that not me.he say no.should I give him time and let him figure out what he want????pls help me