They keep switching my Dr's without telling me!

I'm getting so fed up with this hospital. I'm currently 40+3 and am hoping for a Vbac but have a c section scheduled as a back up. It was originally with my Dr of choice as was the pre Op appointment. Well they switched the pre Op appointment to be with some random male Dr, it says right in my chart that I do not want to be with any male practitioner (bad experience with a man). So I had to have that appointment changed to be with a women who ended up being a stait up cunt. My pre op phone interview was today and we started going over things and low and behold they changed who my surgery was with to the Dr I saw that was awful. So I'm trying to get back on schedule with my Dr and she is no longer in the office due to Covid. So now I'm trying to get a c section scheduled with a woman who is not the Dr I saw that I hated and this took about an hour total because its being scheduled when I am 41+5 and thats a big no no at my office apparently. I gave birth to my 1st after a failed induction at 41+5 and don't see a big deal in giving me 2 extra days to possibly go into labor and not get cut open again. I'm just so frustrated on how my office is handling things. I get this is a crazy time but at least give me the courtesy of calling before you not only change the practitioner I'm seeing for an appointment but especially for major abdominal surgery! I'm so hoping to go into labor, even more so since I have never met and won't meet the Dr that would be preforming my surgery until right before she cuts me open. Come on baby just work with me and come out the way you are supposed too, pretty please and thank you!