Dating trouble?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for a little while now(lesbians btw haha). Anyways, when we started dating we were friends for about a month and then started dating after that. We spent much at school together and hung out outside of school a lot but never really snapchatted or texted or anything because i prefer talking to someone in real life more than over snap or text, but we did talk online for a bit when we started dating. Now, we barely ever talk. We send the occasional hi or a meme like ones every 3 weeks and have 2 minute conversations. We’re still technically dating but it doesn’t feel like a relationship, i love her obviously but now i just don’t know if it’s the right kind of feeling. we should want to talk to eachother all the time and be in love, and i shouldn’t dread messages and ignore eachother? right? idk what to do anymore. please help.