Work in this context meaning other than a stay at home mother, because I know that is hard work too! I'm just curious to see how many others have jobs/careers as military wives, I know some do and some choose not to and I respect the reasons for both, I personally have always pictured myself in a career but I would also love to stay at home and care for my children. No intention to offend anyone so I apologize if I do so, just know many stay at home wives/mothers and wanted to get some insight on whether it is what they wanted or more what the military chose for them