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So angry

So i am 18w3d pregnant and I’ve been having weird greenish yellowish discharge and my vagina just feels sooo inflamed and swollen. So during my pregnancy my libido for sex was at an all time low and i literally never wanted to have sex especially in the first trimester. My boyfriend was like i understand blah blah blah so i eventually ended up trying to have sex right for him before the pandemic started but we only had sex for like a good 2 min before i felt disgusted and i was like nope not doing this. My symptoms started really lightly and now it’s crazy. I called my doctor and he put me on antibiotics so see if the infection would clear up he initially thought it was bv but apparently this medication did not work whatsoever. So now I’m thinking my boyfriend cheated on me that’s why he was so fine without having sex with me. Because the doctor obviously checked me in the beginning of my pregnancy for stds and i was clear. I initially broke up with him 2 days ago for many many reasons and now he’s not answering me. I’m going to call my doctor again tomorrow to see if he can see me at least on Wednesday since my symptoms have not cleared up. If this is actually an std i am going to go ballistic because it can harm our baby.

Update:

So today i called my doctor and he said that since the medication that he prescribed was not effective it sounds like I’m dealing with a sexually transmitted disease. My doctor can’t see me since my mom had covid19 and i was exposed even though i had no and have no symptoms they have to clear me before i actually go in so technically this can get worse for my baby and me. So i called him and i was like why didn’t you answer my message yesterday like i expect you to since you are the father of my baby and he’s like i don’t have to answer to you. And i was like you kinda do like i literally I’m carrying your child and everything that you did before affects me and your child. So can i ask you when we were together who did you have sex with and his reply was why do you care. That literally set me off and i really tried to maintain my composure i said because i am carrying your child and this infection literally can put your baby’s life in jeopardy so let me know so i can know how to deal with this. He hung up. I texted my best friend to vent and she’s said you want me to text him so i let her text him. And he literally changed the whole topic around like i can’t understand the need to be like this right now especially during this pandemic Iike i can’t go outside and get food since I’m technically still in quarantine because of my mother. I even texted him the day before to see if he can get me some milk bread and fruits and he literally ignored me. So right now i don’t know how I’m going to provide for my baby and keep my baby safe i am definitely trying tho. Btw when my friend texted him which I’m going to post in the bottom he literally would respond to her but still ignore me like how does that work.