Ladies Advice Needed !

So I’ve been messing around with this guy for going on almost 4 years, we’ll call him A.

We haven’t put a title on it because of where we are in life but the vibe & chemistry is definitely there between us two

... well sometimes.

I’m a female and we started messing around when I was younger so building a relationship wasn’t really on our minds at the time.

So recently (like sometime last year) I decided to talk to him about that. He’s in college a couple hours away & I’m in the process of getting back in school myself so when he told me, “right person, wrong timing” I totally understood BUT I did want him to show me a lil more. As far as texting me a lil throughout the day is all I asked but he’s so inconsistent when it comes to that 🙄

Now here’s where things get a lil complicated... y’all knew the plot twist was coming. 😂

I have been involved with someone else and there’s times me and A have gone long periods w/o talking to each other due to my relationship & during these times, he’ll constantly text me on different social media’s, my phone & even call, I just ignore it and don’t respond bc I have respect for my SO.

Recently my relationship has taken a turn for the worst & we agreed that we just need time apart to get ourselves together.

It’s been months since then though so when A hmu a couple weeks ago, I finally responded and we started talking again.

Just last week we had sex but he literally nutted in 1min 35secs, I KID YOU TF NOT!

Now he’s ignoring me.. any suggestions on why? I don’t understand for someone who begs for my time just to do that... 🤔