2020 baby after 2019 baby!

Well it happened we got pregnant again.

A little back story, my last pregnancy we had a crazy experience, we found out at 9 weeks that I had a ectopic pregnancy along with a viable pregnancy. I had emergency surgery the same day and it was the craziest thing we have ever been through, especially because the other baby was still trying to grow. Fast forward to the end of the pregnancy I ended up having surgery again to remove my placenta cause it wouldn’t detach. I lost enough blood after they got it removed that I stayed in the hospital longer to make sure I recovered and didn’t get an infection.

Well we found out last week that we are pregnant again, I know I should be happy it took us a long time to have our two little ones (oldest is 11 the littles are two and soon to be one.) I’m beyond scared we talked about having another but not for three or so years. My husband is over the moon and all I can think about is our loss and all the scary things that happened after.

Please help a mom of three find peace in having another especially sooner than she was ready to have another one.