Fiancé is pushing his family away... bad sign?

He would always complain he didn’t see them enough. Yet never act on it. He would see them for 5 mins then go to his friends. I was going to make brownies and take them to his brother as a graduation gift. He told me I don’t need to and to make them for him. I said “well, we didn’t get a picture of him to post in the grad group so I was going to get it today.” And he proceeded to tell me pictures are gd stupid and his brother doesn’t like pictures etc. I am so annoyed at him. I mean it’s to the point I’m just about done. He doesn’t want me to go ANYWHERE unless he wants to. He got so aggravated with me during this conversation (I was preparing our dinner) and he said “fuck it I’m not hungry” and stormed off and slammed the door. Can you date someone so negative?