Who’s the bad friend?

I genuinely want to know what you guys think.

I’ve had a best friend for 6 years now and yes we’re completely different but I’d do anything for her.. I’m going to get right to it whenever she has boy problems.. even if I don’t like the guy/ care for him I always let her vent no matter how many times she needs too and I give her advice in a way to let her know I’m here for you and he’s not worth it. Now when it’s me.. I’m currently having issues with my bf since the beginning she never cared for him because we were best friends first and he can be a female when it comes to me. Always getting butt hurt blah blah blah, he actually hurt me pretty bad and she just hits me with “I love you I don’t want to talk about him at the end you’re going to do what you want” I don’t like telling EVERYONE my business but I tell her and when it has been about my now bf.. she always tells me “do I have to comment on this? + again you’re going to do what you want” I feel like I can’t even speak to her about it anymore. I’m becoming angry because I’ve never made her feel this way.

Please ladies opinions?

She’s 28, I’m 26 and we’ve known each other from high school. I can’t help but feel hurt/mad because when she needs to let things out I let her and when I do there’s times she completely ignores it and tells me her issues.

We just took that next step so it’s only been this one issue and she shuts me out when it comes to him

Edit- no ladies it’s just with him, she’s never been like this she just claims she can’t “stand” him but it’s not about him it’s about me needing a friend