Ok so I’m at a loss here

Here I sit almost 35 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriends work still has no idea he’s expecting a baby. I’ve been asking him to request the four days he works off for when the big day comes since he got hired in January. He works for Kroger at the shipping warehouse. I’ve had to bring this up once a week now. And he doesn’t engage in conversation about it except for saying he still hasn’t said anything. Right now my hospital is only allowing one support person, once we are there we cannot leave, which means if he has to leave because he didn’t ask off in time, I’m stuck doing it alone. I’ve been really nice about this for months. I’m done being nice! It’s ultimatum time. This is our first! I asked his dad to speak with him about it and I shot myself in the foot with that one because instead of telling him to do what I asked he just offered to come and bring his wife (my SO step mom) to come and “help” the first week we are home and of course my stupid SO told him that would be great 🤦🏻‍♀️

Which is literally the last thing I wanted. This should be a time for me him and baby. So today I sent him this. We’ll see how he responds. He’ll probably say “ok” and then it still won’t get done. Like he has for the last 4 months 😭