I want an honest opinion.
Okay so.
My partners parents are nice but sometimes I really dislike what they do. For starters, comments about my boobs from his dad. It makes me uncomfortable. Second of all, when he saw my sister sat in the car he went "ew the state of that" and it almost made her cry because even though he thought it was a joke his tone of voice said otherwise.
When I fell pregnant they were overjoyed but straight away I had issues. When i didnt like something theyd get it anyway because "her cousin had it" and that's fine. You love your grandkids. Until they started insisting about cot bumpers and that was a huge no. My partner tried convincing me because they bought them and I told him to doone.com because just no. I then said I'm not weaning her before 6 months and they were like "oh but we did it at 3 months" blablabla. Do I care? No, shes my kid.
Then his dad made sexual comments with my partner....about my mum. So I stood up and told them both to fuck themselves and walked off. Because that's not funny. It's really fucking not and I mentioned various times to stop.
Then.. guess what. My boyfriends a mummy's boy. I pay for my daughter, items for when we move out and I'm saving for a deposit. I had a huge arguement with him about saving £20 for a deposit on a home for our family. Had to pull teeth for him to do it. But oh mother dearest wants £100 and he gives it straight away. I'm still in my maternity clothes because I pay for everything and hes the one with a job.
And this just tops if all off. I had a miscarriage and when I came out the hospital his mum went "oh at least you have ____ some people cant have kids" oh.. ok thankyou? And then when his brother announced their pregnancy she shared it and obv that's fine but an hour later she pops up and says "oh its finally some good news!" And it's like.. ok because I wanted it to be bad news?
Idk if I'm hormonal or what but I'm starting to get fed up.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.