Not really pregnancy related but....

Hey not really related to me as a mom, but does anyone know how to break away from your mom? I have such a strong bond with her. I'm not only her firstborn but she always tells me how I saved her from going down the wrong path. She's always been there for me, stood up for me when I couldn't. She never left when all my "dads" didn't. She's my absolute treasure.. but I've found what makes me happy and fulfilled in life and that just so happens to be 14 hours away from her... I'm also pregnant and expecting her first grandbaby... I just don't know what to do. I love her but I know me passing up my own happiness will only leave me feeling regretful and miserable.

Any advice would be really appreciated!!