Advice

Hi, I am super confused what is going on with my body these past couple of weeks, can anybody help me figure out why this is happening?

Okay, so I am a 19 year old female who becomes turned on and has a sex drive for rough sex but whenever I am turned on and me and my boyfriend do slow, meaningful sex I don’t feel any sexual sensations.. (I did before these couple of weeks) I am turned on (wet) but I don’t feel it happening??? Like as if sex is not even happening.

I need help? It keeps happening and I don’t know why.

Tbh I often said to by bf I really loved it when we did the connecting feeling of sex with each other and I didn’t like the rough sex because of how I felt it more with the slow meaningful sex but now my body has completely changed its mind and now I can only feel sensations in doing it fast but when we do it slow I don’t feel it physically but I do feel it emotionally??? Confused it’s been happening for a couple weeks now. And THIS IS IMPORTANT sometimes (only rarely) I don’t feel the physically sensations even if we do have sex roughly. I can’t win I don’t understand.

Need some advice