Opinions ? Advice?

Question

Okay I know you guys can’t tell me why I feel the way I do, but I just want to hear you out on what you have to say about this. 
 
My daughters father and I have been on and off for 2 years. In the beginning we were SO for the having sex everyday, all the time, I’m talking quickies everywhere and frequently.  
More better said I was. Now it’s like a no for me. I don’t get turned on from him, I don’t even bother to want to have sex, I hate kissing him. Like when he tries to kiss me I put my cheek out or like when he tries kiss my neck I’m just like yuck get off of me. I hate when he touches me or tries to rub on me, when we’re laying down and he puts his arm on me I want it off. I’m just not into having sex. With him. Nor anyone. 
Please don’t start with me being a asshole or anything of that kinda of shit okay, he knows this stuff. I’m just confused on why I feel the way I do now. Reason is because I feel bad because he wants to always be on me but I’m just not turned on by it anymore. 
Don’t get me wrong, once in a while I’m horny and want to get down and of course he’s always horny and always wants to get down so the two go together but I’m saying it’s rare.  I’m saying probably once a month IF THAT. 
Any advice or suggestions? Opinions?

Answer

I had this issue when I was on depo, it may have been because it basically stops the need for sex, but I wouldn’t even let him touch me. Everything he did I hated and I couldn’t figure out why. I eventually ended things. Sometimes we are just no longer attracted to people anymore, even if we used to be super into them. It’s normal and personally I think you should take the time to either talk to him about it or get to the root of the problem. I didn’t realize why I was feeling the way I was, but once I allowed myself to breathe and be by myself for a few months, i was back to “me” I guess you could say. I personally felt awful for how I treated my ex even though it wasn’t what I meant to do. Just don’t be upset with yourself, and don’t blame yourself. It can happen to anyone at any time and in all honesty I’m not very sure why. But I hope you can figure things out. Issues you’ve had in the past that have built up without you realizing can be the cause, any type of mentally hurtful situations he may have put you through or something else you’re going through can also be a reason.

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