Ready to throw the whole husband out..

So it may just be the virus talking or just that time of the month but I need to vent...

My husband has been home pretty much everyday the last 2 weeks I am a SAHM mom so I am use to doing all the day to day chores on my own and tending to our child. Making dinner and brining him his plate along with our childs who is 1. So 2 weeks ago was my b-day all i wanted was a simple foot rub. I did bother about it the weekend of because we had company. So here we are tonight he makes steak cuz thats one thing he always makes and then after I laid our daughter down for bed I asked for that foot rub nicely. I allow him to play the xbox all the time and I dont ask for his help most the time because im so use to just doing but when I literally dont complain about him playing and not helping when I do ask for that foot rub I kinda want it. After about an hour he finally started it and turned on a movie and went to sleep right after he started. Didnt even get one foot done. He never picks up behind himself literally spilt some soda on the floor got up to use the bathroom and didnt even bother to clean it up. And its ALL the time chip bags he leaves everywhere. His uniform just lays in the middle of the living room floor till I pick it up. Dishes I never get help with. Our daughter he has changed 1 diaper in a week and thats because I asked. I am just so fed up and want to cry. When we were teenagers id let it slide but now were 26 and 27 and I cant deal with it. Its like living with a slob and he wants another kid and I cant do that or even want to because at this point far as im concerned we wont even be together and I already have 2 kids in my eyes as much as im picking up behind him. And I start back to work next month when we move back home and im so stressed its going to be to much for me and asking myself if I can rely on him the way he does me and am I gonna get the help I will need once back at work. I jist want to cry. And im "bitching" if I say anything but I just feel hes to comfortable and hes told me that before and things are better for about 2 months and then he slacks again. What gives. And he doesnt see how much I feel like im drowning right now. Any advice? Im ready for a new husband one that helps and wants to grow with me and be open minded to new things unlike my current husband who thinks i cant like or want to try new things. Im so over all this and becoming really unhappy. Im 10 years ive never wanted or thought about finding another man but im at this mindset of I deserve more and feel like it shouldnt be like this.