Reflux baby. How do you guys do?

Hello there, I am so jealous reading the posts on how well your babies sleep, enter schedules, self soothe, etc... we are on the same way until we realized that she was not thriving, in fact all the whole night sleep was that she was sleep starving, just the pain during feeding was what kept her on schedules.

Now, the nurse that is advising us told me to follow her lead on nursing and she is not asking during the day ( I even offer, but there is so much more interesting things for her that she sometimes refuses it!) and then she catches up during the night, so I don’t sleep longer than 2-4 hours.

It is great now because she is gaining weight, but the nurse told us not to let her cry either, so bye bye sleep training...

Anybody else has a reflux baby? If yes, how do you do to sleep training and have a more organized feeding/sleeping schedule? I feel like we are lagging behind but we don’t know how to do this!

Thanks for all your help! Go mamas!