Help! What Do Y'all Think!??

Question

I'm stuck in a rock and a hard place ! 
I don't know whether to remove my sons foreskin when he is born ..
😐🙄what do you all think!!??
🤔🙄What's your guys' opinion!??
My Husband Dont Wanna Remove It Because...Well When He Was Born (In Mexico) They Cut ✂️ His Foreskin Off and To Him They Fucked It Up And He Hates The Way It Looks! 
And So He Don't Want His Son To Feel The Way He Feels ! And Doesn't Want Him To Also Feel That Pain! 
I Dont No What To Do!!!
I'm Okay With Foreskin Staying But Scared  He Won't Take Care Of It And It'll End Up Smelling Or Worse He'll End Up Getting A Infection!!! BECAUSE Of Not Cleaning Himself Right! 
And Ect.....
So I Wanna See 👀 What Y'all Mommas Think!?

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No one should be impacting this decision for you and your husband. There are people who have varying, and sometimes extremist, views on the subject. Speak to a physician and do some research from credible sources to make an informed decision.

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This is not something that should be up to popular opinion

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For a long time i was convinced circumcising would be the right choice for my future boys.
Now that I’m pregnant with twin boys and have done a lot of research and also have a partner who is uncircumcised, we will not be doing it. My partner has never had any infections and it’s a lot more common for the surgery itself to cause infection than leaving it.  
Sadly it is mainly a cosmetic and religious surgery and it so unnecessary that insurance will not cover it and hospitals will bill you for it and if that doesn’t speak volumes. 
There may be some “health benefits “ but there are pros and cons to both. There are also health benefits to not doing it aswell. 
I will just say, don’t leave it up to us to tell you, do your own research , watch some videos on how it’s done and choose what you think is best.  That way you know in your heart you’re making the right choice for your son.

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Most of the world leave it alone and seem to survive just fine.

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I don’t get why everyone’s so concerned with boys not being able to wash themselves?? Is this just a thing in the US because a lot of other countries don’t circumcise and have no problems with guys constantly getting infections due to poor hygiene. I certainly wouldn’t cut something off that’s supposed to be there if my only reason for doing so would be to save my kid the time of cleaning it.

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I have 2 boys already 21 & 15 neither were Circumcised as my husband isn’t either. We both just taught them proper hygiene n had no problems with infections or anything else. I’m due in July with my 3rd son we will follow the same as we did with our older ones..

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Im pregnant with a boy and decided to leave that decision to my fiance. He is Mexican also and not circumcised. He decided not to have it done. Im not against circumcision. Just teach your son proper grooming habits and he should be fine regardless. 😁

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My sister in law from my previous marriage did not circumcise her son. At around the age of 5 he had to keep going to the dr due to infection. They ended up doing it later on, it’s ultimately your decision on your baby. I’m pregnant with a girl, but my husband and I did discuss if our baby was a boy we would have gotten him circumcised.

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