Anyone else’s family like this

So since the lockdown began for coronavirus I was being extremely strict. Have still been following all rules, not seeing any friends/family. Only going out for essentials as limited as possible and I’m wiping down everything I bring into my house with anti-bac wipes and I’m washing my hands and sanitising, wearing masks taking clothes off I’ve worse outside etc disinfecting my house every few days. Being very strict. Im terrified of my health being impacted I suffer with hypochondria.

But my family isn’t.. they are doing the opposite. They’re visiting peoples houses, having bbq’s going to the shops most days and my mum is letting my cousins stay over at her house with my 5 year old sister having drinks with people and neighbours.

I’m PISSED off. How can people be so careless ? I’ve stressed to them so many times please follow the rules because it’s a terrifying illness god forbid if any of them get it.

I’m so annoyed at them for being so reckless they know I suffer badly with health anxiety too so it’s just upsetting. Especially when people are being so strict and haven’t seen anyone for so long. I miss them so much and they keep saying “oh just come over it’ll be fine”

but I won’t give in and they’re mad at me for it.

Anyone else know people that are doing this? It’s making me worried there will be a second wave.