1st birthday party?

Mel

What’s everyone doing for their child’s first birthday party? In NY we can’t have gatherings of more than 10 and my daughters grandparents are older and we don’t want to get them sick. We were thinking of just her grandparents in the yard spread out and we have a bbq just a very small group but then I don’t know what to do with our extended family. I considered doing a virtual party but what would we do? Smash cake and then what? This is taking up more mental space than I have lately