How is everyone getting along in the bedroom these days? Any pointers for a FTM?

Hubby is so sweet and understanding. He’ll spend tons of extra time on foreplay for me, massages, candles, asking me if things feel good/okay...he really wants me to enjoy it. But I just am not enjoying it these days.

The bump is a growing obstacle now. I’ve been mostly on top just to be in control of positioning, speed, etc.. Sometimes it’s a matter of it kind of hurting, and since I’ve had a miscarriage before I panic a little anytime I think something could go wrong. I want to have sex, I really, really do, but I’m having a hard time relaxing and getting comfortable enough to enjoy it. It sucks 😣