Sexually frustrated to tears 😭😭

What the hell do yall do to keep having consistent sex!!!!!!!!

Feels like I'm always wanting to have sex and my husband never ever does. Like consistently in our marriage im ALWAYS initiating it. Im so frustrated and exhausted. Sex is very important to me and I've expressed that several times. We've had talks. He gets it for a second and then back to not having sex. He could go 3 weeks without it and be fine and all my emotions inside are just up and down.3 weeks for me is like sitting my vagina down in a fire. I just can't. Im so mad. Hes always keeping busy with work and projects and sometimes I just feel last on his list. And right now I'm having a moment where I could just cry over this.

We used to have sex all the time when we met. But now its like complete opposite. Weve tried shit to spice things up but like I said it lasts only a moment. I'm just so tired. Everything else in our marriage is great. We both have great careers and everything. But this. Is so important to me to feel close to him and I barely get it. And as awful as this sounds, no sex for me makes all the good things kinda meh....Every little thing pisses me off about him when he ignores my needs. Im just so tired. Its like how much more can I communicate and try to spice shit up! Like fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkk. Weve been extremely busy with our jobs lately. Two ships passing in the night and I just need him. My soul needs him. And I don't have it