Should I forgive him?

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I found my bf on tinder. I told him about it and he’s begging me to forgive him and that he’d do anything to earn my trust back. He hasn’t seen anyone I know that for sure. He’s been crying for days. Should I forgive him? Has anyone forgiven their so’s for something like this and had it work out?

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Id be done, he’s obviously looking for something else. He just hasn’t found it yet. Don’t be an option.

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I would forgive him if you truly still trust him and believe he didn’t see anyone
Just be a bit dry so he knows what he did was wrong for a few days 
Teach him a lesson! Lol

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I’d be done. He got caught, that’s why he’s begging you. How do you know he hadn’t met up with anyone or had plans to?

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You know what tinder is for right?

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He’s clearly on there looking for something else? What’s to stop him from leaving once he finds it? I’d be done with the relationship but you can still forgive him & be done

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Fuck no. The trust is broken, personally id always be worried about what he was doing on his phone after something like this. I wouldn't be able to gain that trust back for a person

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You forgive him only if you know you can live with that (trust him, not being on his case every day because of that and bringing it up any chance you have....).
Only you know what you can take or not.
I personally will forgive a wrong done to me, but I wont stay because trust and peace in my mind is extremely important. And I know I will wonder and I dont want that type of relationship. So forgiveness I give but I am out.
You see what works for you  but know that if you stay and he does it again... well you decided to stay.
That is not to say it is your fault he has done it again but just that you should assess all possibilities and take a decision not for someone but you because you are responsible for the choices you make.

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I’d be done. He was actively seeking attention outside of your relationship. He just hadn’t met someone else, yet. He’s upset because he got caught

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Why would he still have an account and be dating someone?

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Maybe he just didn’t deactivate his account? Why don’t you just ask him to login and see if he’s been on it, some people don’t deactivate there account they just delete it off their phone.

Should I forgive him?

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