I should be worried, huh?

So my boyfriend and have havnt seen eachother in two months because of the pandemic. It’s finally been lifted in our state so we got to see eachother.

Now it’s been hard making plans, as he just started working 60+ hours a week and he doesn’t have much time. I’m okay with it, but it does hurt, so naturally I tell my mom, who I’m very close with.

She’s very protective and said she wanted to talk to him next time she saw him, I thought she was kidding.

My family drive me to the lake to go fishing with him, it’s between our houses and they needed to go to town that way.

We talked about us and it seemed like an awesome, great time. He kept kissing me, grabbing me, all that. I felt really good.

Then he drops me off at my parents truck, my dad gets out to talk to him.

He tells him he wants to make sure he’s on the same page with me, and that he just makes sure to take care of us. My boyfriend said his intentions have not changed and he still feels the same about me as before. Nothing too bad, but I felt mortified, as I’m 21, he’s 20.

Tonight my boyfriend asked if he could come by and pick up his clothes,

“I’d like them back because they mean a lot to me and I miss wearing them on my free time”

Now there’s 4, two of which are his favorites and I was gonna give them back anyway.

I’m still thinking this is a red flag.

He’s never been good with words, and part of me feels he just didn’t phrase it right.

Is this normal? Or has this happened to anyone else?