Hey everyone. So I’m getting married August 1st💍. I recently made the decision about two weeks ago to shave my head. I’ll post a picture below

My dad decided to go behind my back and send a picture of me after my haircut. She called me and she said some horrible things. I couldn’t even say anything. She said I look disgusting and that she won’t be seen with me in public or around family. And if I don’t wear a wig at MY wedding she won’t go or my wedding will be cancelled (she’s paying for my wedding) she is calling me selfish for shaving my head and that she can’t bear being seen with me. Don’t get me wrong, I love my grandma. She raised me but I don’t want to tolerate her gaslighting me or belittling me. There is a difference between stating your opinion and saying things you know are hurting the other person on purpose. I believe I have to right to choose how I want to look on my wedding day. It’s between me and my future husband.

I shaved my head for my own personal journey. I’ve gained more confidence and I feel like a new person. I don’t want to wear a wig at MY wedding because I’m not ashamed of myself. This is me

I want to stand my ground because hair does not define my beauty and it doesn’t define what kind of person I am💕