should i talk to him about this or am i being over dramatic?

so me and my boyfriend have had sex a couple times, well we were having sex and he asked me if i orgasmed and i said no i didn’t and then he said “oh well, it’s ok” after he already came.

well he always wants to keep going when it’s convenient for him, our first time he was so destined to get me to orgasm and now it’s like sex is all about him. he’ll cum and he’s stays hard so he wants to keep going but then after that he wants to stop even if i haven’t orgasmed.

i was riding him and i was about to orgasm and i asked him to stop moving because i had found a good spot. and he did stop moving for like 2 seconds and then he said basically got an attitude and said “can i start moving again” i asked him to wait just a few more seconds because i was so close but he started moving anyway because i wasn’t going fast enough to make him cum.

and i’m not for sure why but i feel so used, like it’s not about both of us it’s just about his pleasure and it’s really weighing on me. what do i do??