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It's okay to feel depressed or uncertain, just don't stay that way. I went through something similar. Do what's best for you. You are all your babies have. Take your strength into making your marriage work back and use it to make you happy. You won't be able to heal until you let go and start loving yourself. You deserve so much better. Now you have a daughter on the way that will be looking up to you. It took me a minute to realize I am worth more and deserve so much better, that I wanted to be the role model my girls look up too. You deserve to be happy and to find someone who will treat like the queen you are and value your worth. Don't waste anymore time on him that he don't deserve and time you can't get back.
Stress, depression, and uncertainty
Hey ladies,
I just need to vent. I’m 16 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. For some reason, no matter how hard I try, I’m just not excited for this baby. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. When I found out I was pregnant, I was planning on sitting down and talking to him about a divorce. I’ve been cheated on multiple times throughout our relationship (last time I was pregnant he contacted prostitutes) yeah a piece of crap, I know. I feel like my feelings towards him are really getting in the way of my life. I can’t stand being around him. I’m just upset because at the moment I decided enough was enough, I end up pregnant. AND AFTER 2 BOYS, I FINALLY GET MY GIRL AT A TIME LIKE THIS. I’m tired of being unhappy but I’m 25 with 3 kids, I feel like there’s no hope for me. My life is basically over. Okay rant over.
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No it’s not over. I’m sorry you’re going through this. My son’s father cheated on me during my pregnancy and the three months he was in the NICU and after that after lying saying it was over. I finally kicked his ass to the curb and yeah it was hard but I was so much happier and then found a great guy. We just had a daughter last Sunday. It’s not easy but I think you’ve answered your qualms..you gotta go. Your unhappiness won’t go away while with him. He obviously doesn’t care. He can be there for the kids and there financially but you should really think about moving forward. Best of luck.
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