Intimacy help ?

WARNING - adult

So my boyfriend of one year refuses to go down on me. Granted, I don’t go down on him every time, but I still feel like my femininity isn’t being appreciated. I told him exactly what my feels were and asked why he didn’t want to, and it took almost a month to get a response. And the response? He has a “mental block.” He said he wants to but he can’t bring himself to do it ??

Idk if I trust that response. He won’t even kiss my thighs or do anything for foreplay! If I ask he might use his hands a little more and take more time, but even then I feel so glimpsed over and underwhelmed.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you guys get over it if you even did?

Please help