I want ya'll honest opinions..
Am I in the wrong ? What should I do ?
Me and my boyfriend aren't that stable.. I ended up falling pregnant.. I am currently 9 weeks.
So my boyfriend has owed me £120 for almost 3 months now, he just keeps making excuse after excuse then a couple of weeks ago he says "Oh I get paid on ____ I'll give you £150, a bit extra to put away for the baby." that's fine, I was happy he was giving me money to put away because it's been all my money so far that's been put away for baby bits.
So I got really annoyed that he still didn't give me no money or even some of it. I wasn't even bothered about the full £150, I just wanted the £120 he rightfully owed me in the first place.
I mentioned the money, he got annoyed said some rude things and I said "I am no longer replying to you until I start seeing some or all of the money. I have my scan in roughly 4 weeks so it's now up to you if you end up coming or not."
Basically saying he has 4 weeks to give me all the money or start paying some of it to me. In my opinion he's never been bothered with the baby, every day he nevers calls or texts me asking how I am, how's the baby. When he first found out he said to get rid of it because he don't want it (even though he was always saying let's have a baby and all of this shit).
I just don't know what to do.. I feel so alone in this pregnancy, I need that money.. I'm literally pulling right back on everything to put money away.. the only thing I have so far is a high chair that was given to me.. I need to buy EVERYTHING and I only managed to put £800 away so far which was my last wage from work as I'm no longer working now. He gets over £400 every 2 weeks. I get £300 a month now. I just don't know what to do..
I feel so lost and alone.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.