Crabby husband!
I’m just venting here - I’m not really sure what the solution is. My husband is in the restaurant business. When COVID hit he was out of a job - we were okay with savings and my paychecks. About 4 weeks ago his restaurant got approved for a loan - and he was offered a job again. He went back- only 10 employees total went back... out of about 50. They were told $1000 for 30 hours a week for the duration of the loan... 8 weeks. It sounded great! However, our state moved to phase 3 and opened up outdoor seating for restaurants in the middle of all this. Suddenly I go from having husband home w me 24/7 to him being gone 40+ hours a week, often coming home exhausted and crabby. All of the employees are now putting in as much work as they can to keep the restaurant open and going - and they’re all working more than their 30 hours. Out of all this, he’s only gotten ONE of the weekly $1000 checks. This is the third week in a row the owner has told them that they’re figuring out the money and it’s not ready yet. He came home so crabby today and pissed off - and I get it!!!! He doesn’t want to quit because it leaves us down an income in an uncertain time. I’m struggling to try and be supportive but also not be annoyed that the very little time I get with my husband is the crabby/annoyed part of him. I’m 27 weeks and home alone all day long by myself. I just want my partner to be happy and for him to be able to enjoy this time with me and the baby. Just feeling frustrated and lonely! 😩
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