I was planning to test tomorrow, but decided I needed an extra day to process if it was negative. But also got an overwhelming feeling that it might be positive! So I tested today and got a BFN.

This is our second failed transfer. Our first was last month. I was definitely more prepared for it this time, but I’m still heartbroken.

We started <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> because of MFI and i have had a full term, healthy pregnancy. So we had no reason to suspect that the transfers wouldn’t be successful. Losing two of our embryos feels like a gut punch. [ETA: these were both PGS tested normal, 5AA embryos. My lining was tri-laminar and 8.6mm]

I feel lost for what to do next. I assume we should do an ERA before our next transfer? Should I ask my doctor to test for anything else during beta? Estrogen/progesterone —to make sure I’m getting enough or both?

Ugh. Y’all this is tough!!! 💔😭